“Ticking away the moments that make up a dull day
You fritter and waste the hours in an offhand way.
Kicking around on a piece of ground in your home town
Waiting for someone or something to show you the way.

Tired of lying in the sunshine staying home to watch the rain.
You are young and life is long and there is time to kill today.
And then one day you find ten years have got behind you.
No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun.”

That’s the opening lyrics of “Time” by Pink Floyd. The anthem of my life so to speak.

What value can be attached to time? You can’t save it for later and time does not build up interest. Time can’t be purchased but it can be given freely, for example when someone spends time with you be aware that they are giving you something of high value.

My exhortation to you is to value every moment and take nothing for granted. The conversations, the moments of silence, the shared laughter. When you travel, try skipping the tourist sites where you’re running to and fro, a picture here and a picture there. In exchange spend time in local eateries and pubs, in vintage bookstores and shops. I guarantee that is not a waste of your time.

You are always only one decision away from a totally different life!

To Travel is to Live

With my cousin.
The Bride and Groom

This year and next year I will be having fun doing short trips, usually in conjunction with the weekend while I wait for my 30 day trip to Italy, Poland and Croatia in 2020.

As I write, I’m sitting in the San Francisco airport waiting for my flight to take me home from one of these shorter trips.

I thoroughly enjoyed myself, flying out here for a family wedding as well as making some time for myself. Yesterday I did a 90 minute hike along the beach in Pacifica, CA. Got to watch the sunset on the Pacific. Quite amazing how fast the sun disappeared once it hit the water!

“To move, to breath, to fly, to float, to gain all while you give, to roam the roads of lands remote, to travel is to live.” ~ Hans Christian Anderson

9 Days Out

I’m dancing with the beast and feeling less than immortal, finding that it’s much easier to train in the mornings on the days when my schedule allows for that. Training after work is especially tough now.Looking forward to a family wedding in California next month. Quick trip, flying into San Jose on a Friday then driving to Fresno for the wedding. Moving on to Pacifica on Sunday for seafood and wine, great little town just north of San Francisco then flying home on Monday.“All that is gold does not glitter; not all those who wander are lost; the old that is strong does not wither; deep roots are not reached by the frost.” ~ J. R. R. Tolkien

More of my favorite places to eat around the world.

Cafe Populaire

110 rue Paradis, 13006 Marseille, France

📞011 33 4 91 02 53 96

This is where the locals go and where I had one of the best salmon dishes ever along with some great regional French wine.


Several locations in the U.K.


Serving French style breakfast and perfect Cappuccino, a couple of steps up from the typical British breakfast. Ate at the Cardiff Bay location as well as the Oxford location, Yummy!

Additions to my Favorite Restaurants List

Porter House Bar & Grill

Manhattan, NYC


Extensive wine list, possibly the best steak house in NYC. You can’t go wrong with the Porterhouse for Two with Black Truffle Mashed Potatoes. Celebrated a friend’s birthday here last fall and the staff made it an evening to remember!

Life Ristorante & Wine Bar

Rome, Italy


We had an exquisite meal here, celebrating my daughter’s HS graduation and my sister’s birthday. Great chef and staff who treated us to after dinner Limoncello as well.

Taverna Antonina

Rome, Italy


This is a cute little restaurant on a side street not far from the Pantheon. The best places in Rome tend to be on the side streets and you will never see a greeter, menu in hand standing outside trying to get people to come inside. Taverna Antonina has indoor and outdoor seating, great food and wine and a nice atmosphere.

Oscar’s Mexican Seafood

San Diego, California


Four locations in San Diego, nothing fancy at this taco shack but great food and a must do anytime I’m in San Diego.

Scoma’s in San Francisco

Great Seafood and I love the Garlic Mashed Potato’s and Clam Chowder. I’ve been going to Scoma’s since the 80’s and usually follow up dinner with a Chocolate-Strawberry Shake from Ghirardelli’s just up the hill. Please skip all of the touristy restaurants at Pier 39 and enhance your day with lunch or dinner at Scoma’s.

Tip: You can usually be seated without reservations between lunch and dinner.